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Topic Originator: ipswichpar
Date: Fri 20 Jan 18:43
Great to see this interesting series back about some amazing individuals doing what they can to save others.
An outstanding bunch.
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Topic Originator: PARrot
Date: Mon 23 Jan 08:29
They are amazing people. They just saved my son. He doesn`t smoke but he got lung cancer. They removed two lobes of his rt lung but he got a clot and went into cardiac arrest. Hes on a ventilator so im off to Vancouver. If you are the praying type it would be much appreciated.
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Topic Originator: Buspasspar
Date: Mon 23 Jan 08:34
Hope all goes well PARot .. will be thinking about you all
We are forever shaped by the Children we once were
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Topic Originator: Raymie the Legend
Date: Mon 23 Jan 11:16
Best wishes to your boy, Graeme and hope that he makes a full recovery?
I can imagine how anxious you must be feeling.
Good Luck
It`s bloody tough being a legend
Ron Atkinson - 1983
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Topic Originator: wee eck
Date: Mon 23 Jan 11:49
I hope things work out fine for you and your family, PARrot,
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Topic Originator: ipswichpar
Date: Mon 23 Jan 12:34
I`m not the praying type but I`ll make an exception for a few minutes over lunch to send all my best wishes in his and your directions.
I`ve been looked after a fair bit myself recently so I can 100% assure you that he`s in the best hands. The quality of medical care is unreal these days....it feels like they have made an awful lot of progress in recent years.
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Topic Originator: PARrot
Date: Mon 23 Jan 13:13
Quote:
ipswichpar, Mon 23 Jan 12:34
I`m not the praying type but I`ll make an exception for a few minutes over lunch to send all my best wishes in his and your directions.
I`ve been looked after a fair bit myself recently so I can 100% assure you that he`s in the best hands. The quality of medical care is unreal these days....it feels like they have made an awful lot of progress in recent years.
Thanks for the encouragement. I hear Vancouver General is world renowned for cancer care so that helps. Hes currently sedated and on a ventilator to let his body heal. Ill find out more tomorrow at the hospital. I dont want to ask his wife lots of questions, she will be stressed out
Bizarre thing is, a polish lass turned up at my daughter's church home group for the first time last week. Her sister works in Oncology at the hospital he is in.
Dunno any significance in that but its pretty wierd.
Post Edited (Mon 23 Jan 13:18)
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Topic Originator: parfection
Date: Mon 23 Jan 13:33
Best wishes and strength to you and your lad PARrot. Do keep us informed of his progress. I, and a great many more on here will be thinking of you all.
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Topic Originator: LochgellyAlbert
Date: Mon 23 Jan 13:55
Best wishes for a full recovery, stay strong!❤️🙏
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Topic Originator: NikNakPar
Date: Tue 24 Jan 07:40
I echo what has been said Parrot. Best wishes to your son and all family.
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Topic Originator: StevenPar77
Date: Tue 24 Jan 08:57
As per the above I hope that everything works out well and that your lad makes a full recovery.
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Topic Originator: Grant
Date: Tue 24 Jan 14:33
Hope everything works out PARrot, thoughts are with you 👍 Can`t imagine how stressful it must have been with it occurring further away.
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Topic Originator: dd23
Date: Tue 24 Jan 16:46
I’ve said a prayer for your son PARrot, hope he recovers quickly. Safe travels.
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Topic Originator: jake89
Date: Tue 24 Jan 17:06
Hope all goes well PARrot.
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Topic Originator: PARrot
Date: Tue 24 Jan 18:16
Thanks guys. We are in Vancouver now. Should get to visit soon. Was a really stressful trip but got here in the end.
Thanks for the prayers and positive thoughts. Much appreciated.
Its good to just have an outlet to talk text.
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Topic Originator: OzPar
Date: Wed 25 Jan 00:03
Warm best wishes to you and your family in this stressful time.
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Topic Originator: PARrot
Date: Wed 25 Jan 01:23
Sorry I seem to have hijacked this thread but its helping me cope with the situation.
He seems to be recovering physically but his brain is swollen. We dont know the extent of any brain damage. He had to be resuscitated 4 times. Its due to his general fitness and strength that he survived though the compressions caused damage to the newly operated on lung.
I fear he could be in an induced comma for a while but he is in the best place for treatment.
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Topic Originator: Raymie the Legend
Date: Wed 25 Jan 06:27
I’m sure everyone is happy to be kept updated. How old is he, btw?
It`s bloody tough being a legend
Ron Atkinson - 1983
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Topic Originator: PARrot
Date: Wed 25 Jan 11:58
Quote:
Raymie the Legend, Wed 25 Jan 06:27
I’m sure everyone is happy to be kept updated. How old is he, btw?
Hes 39 Raymie. Got two boys aged 6 and 9. Thats the hardest part, thinking about them.
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Topic Originator: jake89
Date: Wed 25 Jan 15:13
Fingers and toes crossed for him. And do keep updating.
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Topic Originator: Parfect68
Date: Thu 26 Jan 19:13
Wishing your son a speedy recovery Parrot , must be very stressful.
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Topic Originator: buffy
Date: Thu 26 Jan 20:07
My best wishes to you all Graeme xx
”Buffy’s Buns are the finest in Fife”, J. Spence 2019”
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Topic Originator: Raymie the Legend
Date: Fri 27 Jan 15:21
Any updates on his condition ?
It`s bloody tough being a legend
Ron Atkinson - 1983
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Topic Originator: PARrot
Date: Fri 27 Jan 19:08
Quote:
Raymie the Legend, Fri 27 Jan 15:21
Any updates on his condition ?
I understand a bit more what happened now.
He was doing well after the operation but after 3 days he went to the toilet and passed out. A clot travelled from his leg to his lung and put pressure on his heart causing the cardiac arrest.
He had 4 sets of chest compressions lasting 20 minutes in total. He litterally died 4 times and they got him back.
Ulthough they got to him quick a lot of the blood they were pumping was going into his abdominal cavity due to pulmonary trauma.
This means we dont know how much oxygen his brain was getting.
His whole body is swollen including his brain.
They have induced hypothermia to preserve the brain as much as possible. This causes him to shiver and use too much energy so they are giving him something to paralise him.
They reduce the doses regularly to check progress. It is very slow but there is some.
At the moment they cant distinguish between white and grey cells which isnt good but could be due to the induced hypothermia and paralisis.
I believe they are going to do an ECG today.
His kids are arriving today and it will be tough for them but their voices could help. We dont know if he can hear us.
The doc said yesterday that he will take weeks to physically heal and months for rehabilitation.
They are amazing. He is hooked up to 13 different gadgets with attached meds. They are constantly checking and adjusting stuff and giving him personal care and doing what they can to encourage us.
I love these people.
As wonderfull as they are thou, they can only work with what they have and thats the miracle we are praying for.
Post Edited (Fri 27 Jan 19:09)
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Topic Originator: Raymie the Legend
Date: Fri 27 Jan 19:32
Wow. I can only imagine what you are going through.
God bless him
It`s bloody tough being a legend
Ron Atkinson - 1983
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Topic Originator: ipswichpar
Date: Fri 27 Jan 20:16
PARrot, I`m so sorry to hear he had to go through all that.
One positive is hopefully his age. When I was diagnosed the consultant told me if I was in my 60s I likely wouldn`t survive but in my 40s I had age on my side.
2.5 years on I`m living a normal life after some tough times recovering.
Obviously the cases are different, but all you can do is to keep positive, be strong for everyone and do everything you can. While we`ve never met, it is obvious from your posts that this is the path you will take.
You`re in my thoughts.
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Topic Originator: Buspasspar
Date: Fri 27 Jan 21:06
Stay strong PARot .. The Pars family are thinking.. praying and hoping all will end well for your Laddie
We are forever shaped by the Children we once were
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Topic Originator: MikeyLeonard
Date: Fri 27 Jan 22:00
Thoughts are with you and your family Parrot.
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Topic Originator: PARrot
Date: Mon 30 Jan 23:48
Had a difficult meeting today.
Graeme had his first MRI.
There are irregular signals from his brain which could indicate significant brain damage.
We dont know if it is reversable or irreversable.
They are doing another test today and we will get the results tomorrow. This test could determine whether the damage is recoverable or not.
It could be inconclusive so they will do another test.
They are preparing us for the worst but I dont believe this is the end of the journey. I believe it is just the beginning.
Praying for a positive result tomorrow.
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Topic Originator: jake89
Date: Tue 31 Jan 00:04
Everything crossed PARrot
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Topic Originator: Buspasspar
Date: Tue 31 Jan 19:15
Thinking of you all PARot
We are forever shaped by the Children we once were
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Topic Originator: ipswichpar
Date: Tue 31 Jan 20:18
Thoughts are with you and yours PARrot.
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Topic Originator: Raymie the Legend
Date: Tue 31 Jan 23:09
Praying for the best news.
It`s bloody tough being a legend
Ron Atkinson - 1983
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Topic Originator: PARrot
Date: Wed 1 Feb 12:55
Better news today but not out the woods yet.
There is activity in his brain so some recovery is possible. Still not sure about the extent.
He may be partially paralisedwhich could be temporary. He may or may not be able to communicate which again could be temporary.
He could get up and say. That was a good kip when is McDonald`s open.
The figure we are given is 1 to 10% chance of meaningful recovery.
Well they said his chance of surviving resuscitation following a pulmonary embolism was below 10% and he survived it 4 times.
Long way to go and lots more tests but there is hope.
Its hard watching him gag violently hoping he can`t feel it then realising you actually want him to be feeling it. Hopefully they will be able to get the tube out soon.
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Topic Originator: wee eck
Date: Wed 1 Feb 13:33
It puts the trials and tribulations of following a wee provincial Scottish football club and a lot of other perceived problems into perspective.
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Topic Originator: LochgellyAlbert
Date: Wed 1 Feb 14:36
Quote:
wee eck, Wed 1 Feb 13:33
It puts the trials and tribulations of following a wee provincial Scottish football club and a lot of other perceived problems into perspective.
Agreed, once again "Stay strong!"
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Topic Originator: PARrot
Date: Thu 2 Feb 17:59
He opened his eyes and looked around today. He is still partially sedated. He was frowning and seemed to get a bit distressed. Dont know if he recognised our faces or voices, or just the discomfort of the tube.
We will fnd out a lot more over the next 48 hrs.
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Topic Originator: Buspasspar
Date: Thu 2 Feb 19:16
PARot we can`t even imagine what you and your Family are going through right now .. Stay positive and you have all the Pars Family hoping, wishing, thinking and praying for you all
We are forever shaped by the Children we once were
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Topic Originator: jake89
Date: Thu 2 Feb 19:54
I`m assuming it`s good news he`s woken up PARrot? Hope the next few days see him get back to "normal". I can`t imagine how confusing it must be waking up from a coma so a frown is probably understandable!
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Topic Originator: PARrot
Date: Fri 10 Feb 19:49
Thought Id give a wee update on Graeme jnr. Its been an eventful week. I just copied and pasted this from my fb to save typing similar again.
Another positive day yesterday. Very slight but encouraging improvements.
It is good to see Graeme more comfortable with the tracheostomy. That ventilator was brutal. He was continuously struggling with it.
As he improves control of his own breathing and secretions they will udjust the trach so the exhaling goes through his mouth rather than the tube. This will enable him to make sounds and eventually speak.
He has been moved to another ward and is occasionally sitting in a wheel chair and they have begun physio.
It is still very difficult watching the different expressions on his face and wondering what he is thinking.
Frustration, confusion, determination and sometimes he looks really upset.
It is all thouroughly heartbreaking yet encouraging at the same time.
Danna says he recognised her and the boys yesterday and smiled.
Thats just fantastic.
When Louisa and I were with him later I was talking to him about how he was improving and he lifted his left arm about 45 degrees and wiggled his fingers.
He once told me, before he went to bible school where he met Danna, that he didn`t have a testimony.
Well he has one now.
A few weeks ago he had a 10% chance of surviving resuscitation following a pulmonary ambulism. He survived 4 resuscitations.
A week ago we had a meeting where we were told his chances of surviving were 1% to 10% and if he did survive it was almost certain he would be in palliative care until nature took its course.
Now we see daily improvements, small but significant.
What a guy this is. What a fighter. I am so proud of him.
With his strength and determination, the expertise and dedication of the staff at VGH, the support and prayers from his many friends he is beating all the odds.
There is a long way to go but he and we are encouraged and supported by your prayers.
Thank you all for your support.
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Topic Originator: LochgellyAlbert
Date: Fri 10 Feb 21:12
Getting emotional just reading your post PARrot, hope he keeps improving, I know your faith will pull him through!
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Topic Originator: wee eck
Date: Fri 10 Feb 21:48
It must be a comfort to have the support of his close family around him.
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Topic Originator: jake89
Date: Fri 10 Feb 22:55
Really positive news. Here`s hoping for a swift recovery.
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Topic Originator: Raymie the Legend
Date: Sat 11 Feb 00:55
Some positive stuff to hang onto there. Good news and thanks for sharing.
It`s bloody tough being a legend
Ron Atkinson - 1983
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Topic Originator: PARrot
Date: Sat 11 Feb 00:57
Quote:
jake89, Fri 10 Feb 22:55
Really positive news. Here`s hoping for a swift recovery.
We have always been told any recovery will take months but im seeing things happen quicker than I expected. Hoping it continues
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Topic Originator: Buspasspar
Date: Sat 11 Feb 08:30
A wee tear here reading that PARot .. thinking of you all ..
We are forever shaped by the Children we once were
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Topic Originator: Parfect68
Date: Sat 11 Feb 19:45
Best wishes to you and your family PARrot, hope the recovery continues well.
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Topic Originator: OzPar
Date: Sat 11 Feb 20:04
Encouraging news, PARrot. Stay strong, stay positive, all of you. As today`s football demonstrated so clearly, if you believe enough, miracles do happen.
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Topic Originator: Grant
Date: Mon 13 Feb 15:56
Really encouraging signs there PARrot 👍 thoughts are with you.
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Topic Originator: Raymie the Legend
Date: Sat 18 Feb 23:50
Any updates on his condition ?
It`s bloody tough being a legend
Ron Atkinson - 1983
Post Edited (Sun 19 Feb 06:48)
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Topic Originator: PARrot
Date: Sun 19 Feb 07:16
Quote:
Raymie the Legend, Sat 18 Feb 23:50
Any updates on his condition ?
Yep Raymie its heading in the right direction.
If you click on my pic below and scroll down there are a few updates. Saves me typing it all again.
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Topic Originator: Raymie the Legend
Date: Sun 19 Feb 16:48
Doesn’t appear to work on my phone. Will try on my pc tomorrow, but pleased he is going the right way
It`s bloody tough being a legend
Ron Atkinson - 1983
Post Edited (Sun 19 Feb 16:48)
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Topic Originator: PARrot
Date: Sun 19 Feb 18:19
Quote:
Raymie the Legend, Sun 19 Feb 16:48
Doesn’t appear to work on my phone. Will try on my pc tomorrow, but pleased he is going the right way
Just go to my facebook page Raymie. Graeme Campbell. Same photo.
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Topic Originator: Raymie the Legend
Date: Sun 19 Feb 18:24
Read it. Small steps but important ones 👏
It`s bloody tough being a legend
Ron Atkinson - 1983
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Topic Originator: Buspasspar
Date: Sun 19 Feb 19:46
Me too PARot .. where`s there`s life as they say .. thinking about you all
We are forever shaped by the Children we once were
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Topic Originator: PARrot
Date: Mon 20 Feb 06:02
He is remarkable. He tries so hard to talk and gets so upset and frustrated, but he gets there. Its exhausting.
Soon he will be able to drink normally. That will be a huge relief for him.
The best things are he recognises his family, knows who he is, and responds to questions.
Very slowly and gradually. A full recovery may be possible in time. Having family around him as much as possible is key.
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Topic Originator: OzPar
Date: Mon 20 Feb 11:55
That is encouraging news, PARrot.
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Topic Originator: Buspasspar
Date: Mon 20 Feb 13:28
A day at a time PARot .. thinking of you all
We are forever shaped by the Children we once were
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Topic Originator: dd23
Date: Mon 20 Feb 13:30
This may be an obvious thing, but hold his hand and ask him yes or no questions, squeeze your hand for yes. Just in case you hadn’t thought of it.
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Topic Originator: parfection
Date: Mon 20 Feb 17:14
Recovery is made easier by a caring and supportive family, and your boy clearly has that. I’m so pleased to hear that things appear to be moving in the right direction. 👍
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Topic Originator: LochgellyAlbert
Date: Mon 20 Feb 17:16
As they say "Time is a great healer" stick with it!👍
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Topic Originator: jake89
Date: Mon 20 Feb 17:28
All sounds really positive. Definitely seems to be on the road to recovery. May take a while but really great he`s already responsive and recognises people.
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Topic Originator: PARrot
Date: Mon 20 Feb 19:14
Quote:
dd23, Mon 20 Feb 13:30
This may be an obvious thing, but hold his hand and ask him yes or no questions, squeeze your hand for yes. Just in case you hadn’t thought of it.
Yes we do thaat and sometimes he does. Before he could do that we asked him to blink but were never sure if his blink was a response or just a blink. He couldnt follow blink twice.
Now he is making sounds and some are understandable. Sometimes rarely though, he gets a word or two perfect.
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Topic Originator: Raymie the Legend
Date: Mon 3 Apr 14:23
How`s he doing, Graeme?
It`s bloody tough being a legend
Ron Atkinson - 1983
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Topic Originator: RhinoPars
Date: Tue 4 Apr 10:25
Just seen this thread. Parrot - Wishing you and your family all the best and hope your son’s recovery continues to progress.
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Topic Originator: PARrot
Date: Tue 4 Apr 19:08
Thanks Rhino.
Updates are normally posted on my facebook page below but the past fortnight has been so hectic I haven`t posted much.
Graeme was settling into rehab and starting to work with the specialist neuro physios in the gym.
He got a throat infection which was really bad. He couldnt swallow so pureed food was cancelled and he could only get a stomache feed. He also lost the very limited ability he had to make sounds ams say the odd word or two.
He then got an injury in his urinary tract due to a burst catheter balloon which ended up filling his bladder with blood clots. He also lost a lot of blood and had to get 2 units.
The blood clots were causing extreme pain for days. He had to go back to vancouver general hospital
For an op to empty his bladder clear the clots and check for bleeding etc.All of this was done and the infections fixed. He was in so much pain though i litterally had to wrestle him to contain him while the nurses did what they could. I dont know where he got the strength from he could barely move beforehand.
He was ready to move back to rehab last week but he got held back due to an outbreak of norovirus at the rehab hospital.
He got back yesterday and was in the gym. He managed to stand and walk a bit with aids.
He isnt making any sounds yet but the speech therapist will see him today. She will also do a swallow assessment to see if he can resume pureed food.
Unfortunately over the past fortnight, last week in particular, he has become quite subdued and depressed. We are working on that, and being back in the gym will help.
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